Last night I found out someone who recently met me (and two of my friends) at church thought “they were drug dealers, because of the way we looked.”
Yes, drug dealers. I guess the haircut boycott is working.
This was and is really funny. This morning, on the heels of the thought of me slanging dope, I started thinking about stereotypes. We moved into a new studio space yesterday in an interesting part of town, a district where my hairstyle is pretty tame and it would be easy to manufacture stereotypes.
And in this country, stereotypes often point back to what we do.
Or what we don’t do.
This is a stretch, but there’s a brilliant, dark and irreverent movie (and book) called Everything is Illuminated, where a young American played by Elijah Wood treks over to Eastern Europe to trace his Jewish roots from WWII. He’s guided by a family of Ukrainians, including a quirky guy named Alex who speaks brilliantly busted English.
Alex asks the American about the culture and jobs and money, like, “How much does accountant make?” I started thinking about the places I’ve been where people don’t really have jobs, because there are no jobs to be found.
Where do people find their identity, if it’s not in accounting?
And I remembered the first time I interviewed two brothers in Zim about worship.
“Hi, I’m Francis. I’m a worshiper in the house of the Lord.”
After Francis shared some meaty words of wisdom, Tinashi, standing right beside him, said, “And I’m Tinashi. I’m also a worshiper in the house of the Lord.” And I can’t help but wonder: what would our lives be like if we found our identity in the same place?